๐ DIP: How to connect deeply with anyone
Ed #35: Daily In-Pulse (DIP) TL;DR A deep connection and conversation with someone is what every human being on this planet longs for. With decreased attention spans, we discuss how to connect deeply!
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When was the last time you had a deep wonderful conversation/ connection with someone? Try to remember vividly. Where were you seated? What emotions did you feel? What sort of connection did you feel with the other person? What were the driving factors that led to you having such a conversation? What initiated such an amazing conversation?
There are some instances in life that we remember forever! And one such instance is connecting with someone on a deeper level. You feel heard. Truly seen. No filter. Raw.
Your presence is the greatest gift you can give to a human being.
A lot of conversation is driven by a purpose or a motive. Thatโs mostly in a business sense, or what you might call networking. However, connecting with someone on a free flow conversation is what we will be talking about today.
Itโs important that you remain a vibration high. A high vibration conversation is deeper than a low vibration conversation. People do connect and have conversations from a lower frequency. For example, fear-based connection over a dire situation.
Here is the best way to have a deep conversation with anyone: Stay in the moment and be curious.
Paying 100% attention to the person you are with. No judgments, no interviews. You are not looking at thoughts or next questions that pop up. You are not looking at any quick responses that you want to share. Just staying resent and paying full attention to what the other person is saying. And then, stay curious about what they are saying.
Empathetic listening and staying curious are two skills that will take you far.
Here is what you can do when you have a conversation with someone:
Have some initial open-ended questions and simply carry on from there
Initiate curiosity. Ask โHowโ and โWhyโ to stay curious
Put yourself in their shoes and feel what they are feeling
Listen and encourage them to keep talking
Open-ended questions that connect on a deeper level are thought-provoking, relevant to the situation you find yourself in, and can start a lengthy conversation.
Hereโs how you can master the art of asking the right questions.
Community Conversation: Whatโs your question that helps people open up?